Well you might think so, and the fact that almost everyone I know, knows that after work I go home alone, straight to bed alone, do shopping on my own, taking care of children still on my own(alone). Nobody should be alone especial during holiday, you got to have people around to share with , Well I have my sisters who have their own life, and my children who have limited time for me because school, when they back from school ,it will be home work or playing games on their phones.
But here is the thing, I am not lonely at all , I might be alone, but not lonely( I can hear Pink ‘s song ” doesn’t mean I’m lonely when I’m alone” ) nice song I must say. By choice of course, People can be nasty if you don’t have a man if your life, there are so many things that have been said to me , like ” you so beautiful, you would have been a good wife , what happened?” or as nasty and evil as ‘ she’s sleeps around that why she doesn’t have a man” I am one of those women who won’t settle for less , and unfortunately that sound like a curse to the way society.
I’ve never been that ” kind of woman” so to speak . I decided that I won’t have a man that will decide to be mean and be disgusted by me , I won’t be in a relationship where I would still be lonely and anyway, I didn’t wanted a man that I would be sitting alone at home and wonder where he was , won’t have a man who will constantly lie to me, don’t respect me. I certainly don’t condone cheating, I’ve heard so many times that cheating is one of the recipe to keep a relationship stronger🙄.
I am a good person and I had to take a step back, back when I was growing up , I knew exactly what I wanted , But I had forgotten about it and fell for what I thought at the time love. I wouldn’t say wrong man but I cross path with men that were not sent by God for me, I don’t even hate my exes, whatever wrong they did to me, it could be because we were wrong for each other. I understand we were where we were not suppose to be at the time and we thought we in love. or that’s what I thought.
I believe one the reason of any kind of abuse in a relationship would be because we are with people with not suppose to be , the lust that covers our hearts make us think we in love. Now you get a man/woman who gives you the kind of love that you don’t need.
The word love on its own has certain value, it is also an opposite of hate , we know love has everything to do with God and hate everything to do with the opposition , so even if your partner is God sent but if you don’t constantly pray to God it’s not going to work.
I love love , I decided to wait for God to give me the partner that we really are for each other , am I gonna wait for a long time for this person, perhaps yes but it better this way, I am a good person and I am getting what is good. The bible scriptures explain clearly what marriage and love is ,